I have a huge pet peeve about being called "hot". It is definitely among the top 10 things that turn me off. The only guys who have called me hot have been dirty, nasty slimeballs that just have one thing on their mind. The only person who will ever be allowed to call me that will be my husband... haha. :)
I hate how I feel when someone describes me as "hot". I don't want to be thought of as a hottie. I want to be thought of as beautiful, and I know I'm not alone in this. I have only met a very few girls who prefer being called hot to being called beautiful, and the lifestyles they live are definitely questionable.
The purpose of this post is to hear all of your opinions on this subject. Am I just being a prude? Or do you agree?
Which do you prefer... hot or beautiful?
♥-Kaylee
October 11, 2009
October 10, 2009
First of all...
...I'm so sorry it has been so long since anyone posted on here! School is kicking everyone's butts around here and essay and studying is a bigger priority than this blog. :)
So let me just jump right in and update you all on this situation with Jeremy that I talked about in the last post I wrote. I made up my mind to just crush him the next opportunity I had. that's the good news. I know most of the people who commented (and thanks for your input!) said that is what I should do, and I know you're right. The problem is, I haven't had an opportunity. The reason why I haven't already crushed him is because he fluctuates between flirting and ignoring. He'll be all nasty and then he won't talk to me for a month or so, which gives me enough time to feel confident that he is finally backing off before he strikes again. this time, however, I am not going to let myself feel comfortable with the idea that he took all the hints I've given him that I'm not attracted at all, and I'll be ready if/when he tries something smooth again. If only he were perceptive enough to just leave me alone, as well as all the other girls he toys around with. Ugh...
There is a formal coming up before too long that I am nervous about. It's girl's choice, and I honestly don't know who I am going to ask. I may just end up not going, even though I am helping out with decorating and food. It is so frustrating to not know of a single person who I would like to spend a few hours with that doesn't already have a girlfried or a fiancee. Maybe I'm being really picky, but I don't want to settle for less. Maybe I'm just taking things too seriously though. :)
Thoughts? I love comments! And thanks to everyone who has left one!
-Kaylee
So let me just jump right in and update you all on this situation with Jeremy that I talked about in the last post I wrote. I made up my mind to just crush him the next opportunity I had. that's the good news. I know most of the people who commented (and thanks for your input!) said that is what I should do, and I know you're right. The problem is, I haven't had an opportunity. The reason why I haven't already crushed him is because he fluctuates between flirting and ignoring. He'll be all nasty and then he won't talk to me for a month or so, which gives me enough time to feel confident that he is finally backing off before he strikes again. this time, however, I am not going to let myself feel comfortable with the idea that he took all the hints I've given him that I'm not attracted at all, and I'll be ready if/when he tries something smooth again. If only he were perceptive enough to just leave me alone, as well as all the other girls he toys around with. Ugh...
There is a formal coming up before too long that I am nervous about. It's girl's choice, and I honestly don't know who I am going to ask. I may just end up not going, even though I am helping out with decorating and food. It is so frustrating to not know of a single person who I would like to spend a few hours with that doesn't already have a girlfried or a fiancee. Maybe I'm being really picky, but I don't want to settle for less. Maybe I'm just taking things too seriously though. :)
Thoughts? I love comments! And thanks to everyone who has left one!
-Kaylee
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