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December 7, 2009
December 4, 2009
Divorce and dating... dun dun dun!
An anonymous person left a comment several days ago asking our opinion on this subject. He has since deleted it, so even though I have access to the comment still because deleteing the comment doesn't delete the email notification, I will just talk about it in general and not share specific stuff from his comment.
Basically, the jist of his comment was wanting to know what chances he has in the dating world as a divorced man. My thoughts? I think it depends a lot more on who you are now than anything that has happened in the past. For me, personally, I would be totally fine with dating a divorced person. And heck, if he fits the "criteria" of things I want in a future husband, then I don't see why I would have any problem with getting married to him, even if he had kids. the most important thing to me in a realtionship/husband is not whether he has been divorced or has kids or anything like that, but whether he is a good, solid member of the church, if I feel confident that he is going to work just as hard as me to keep our relationship/marriage strong, if he is or will be a good father, and the rest of the quite long list of things I look for in a relationship/husband. Maybe I'll have to post at least some of that list sometime. :)
So to you, anonymous commentor, I say go for it and good luck! I'm sure there is someone out there for you andm I hope you find her soon!
Let me open this up to anyone else who still reads this blog. What do you think about divorce and dating?
This is an interesting topic... thanks for bringing it up!
Basically, the jist of his comment was wanting to know what chances he has in the dating world as a divorced man. My thoughts? I think it depends a lot more on who you are now than anything that has happened in the past. For me, personally, I would be totally fine with dating a divorced person. And heck, if he fits the "criteria" of things I want in a future husband, then I don't see why I would have any problem with getting married to him, even if he had kids. the most important thing to me in a realtionship/husband is not whether he has been divorced or has kids or anything like that, but whether he is a good, solid member of the church, if I feel confident that he is going to work just as hard as me to keep our relationship/marriage strong, if he is or will be a good father, and the rest of the quite long list of things I look for in a relationship/husband. Maybe I'll have to post at least some of that list sometime. :)
So to you, anonymous commentor, I say go for it and good luck! I'm sure there is someone out there for you andm I hope you find her soon!
Let me open this up to anyone else who still reads this blog. What do you think about divorce and dating?
This is an interesting topic... thanks for bringing it up!
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